I'm really fucking sick and tired of seeing people judging myself and others on the timeline thing.
I'm also sick of facing some reality that if I were to date and be in a relationship with another woman again, I have to
a) not be regularly if not frequently talking about Joyce
b) not be crying over things involving or related to her or her and I's relationship
SHE WILL ALWAYS BE TALKED ABOUT AND THOUGHT ABOUT UNTIL THE DAY I DIE.
AND ANY OTHER WOMAN WHO I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH WILL NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT, FOR YEARS, DECADES EVEN.
If that prevents me from ever having another relationship, so be it I guess. Although that in a lot of ways gives me reason not to want to stick around as long as I could I suppose.
If you're one of those people, women specifically who think "You need to get over her" or "You're not ready because all you do is think about and talk about your late wife"
and even if you're a Widow yourself, you can go FUCK YOURSELF!
That to me is some of the most INSENSITIVE, JUDGEMENTAL OPINIONS that could be said to someone whose suffering.
